Relationship is a question today – Why ?
Nowadays we always say that it is difficult to handle a relationship. How could enjoy our relationship with a different opinion?
Let us we will see,
Relations means I create a picture in my mind how my daughter in law should be? How my son should be? and Son create the image that How my father should be?
The image that creates the person through his behavior, thoughts and by his perception, if it will not match with his relationship then it will produce conflicts as I am doing constantly match the following. My daughter in law should be same as that serials heroine. If my daughter in law is not like this. and not behaving also like this. This produces irritations in my family and so my relationship gets disturbed.
If you want our relationship should be strong then you accept the other person as it is,
let us go for the other person behavior.and give him guidance lovingly.
Some following points makes our relationship difficult.
1] Jealousy create a barrier in our relationship. If I am jealous of anyone means I feel inferior, I feel depressed, I feel low, feel weak, I feel not getting so I behave differently. So my relationship gets disturbed.
2] I want to be better than you that type of thought is hatreds
3]If we will going through competition, then we will make dis empowering, if someone is in problem then we are thinking it is the chance to go ahead.
3]Just lower the other person we think we become higher.
4] So many times relationships are disturbed due to an ego.It may be superior ego or inferior ego.
5] the Wrong conversation destroys relationships.
6] If we did any business in a relationship and if we are not completed any commitment to them that also destroys relationships.
7] If we purposely ignore any connection it destroys the relationship.
8]If we left a contact in nearer bindings it also destroys relationships.
Flows Of Love: In the relationship, unconditional and clean love flows automatically and radiate power.
In every relationship, everyone wants love, trust, respect and exchange of some kind of comforts, some qualities in a person that makes feel me better, If I will not getting these then it is the point of quarrel.
Why Did Relationship Today Becoming Harder?
Today’s education system teaches how to earn a lot of money. so everyone is fulfilled with their all needs.Therefore every family is thinking that ”my family is nice,I have a lot of money then why should I need anyone to join my family?” If anyone is in trouble and I have to help him instead of helping him I think that ”First my business, my job, my career is important, if I will keep attention to another one then what will happen to my family? Is it for fewer days? no ,it will be for more days then how can I help them? https://chhayaonline.com/2019/04/29/reason-behind-pain-in-waist-treatment-for-it-worldhealthmonth-evion-a-to-z-blogchatter/
Suppose in our relationship One family is poor, maybe it is our brother, sister or anyone then instead of giving them help, power, guidance to become rich we are keeping distance with them thinking that she is poor what could I do for her? Is her destiny like this?
If she has any problem may be of disease, quarrel or anything then our duty is that we have to help them. But we are thinking that
is this problem is for one day? No, it is always, What can we do?Nowadays no one is asking for anyone who is the sister? who is the brother?If I will not inquire them what will happen?I have to enjoy my life. I don’t need any brother or sister.
Due to this thinking, everyone is becoming insecure and he is chasing money. He thinks that if I have the only a lot of money, my life will be comfortable. There is no need for anyone. I think all problems root is this thinking then it brings ego, hatreds, jealousy, etc…..https://chhayaonline.com/2019/07/15/how-to-select-vegetables-related-to-season-health/ If You Like it then share…3000
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